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Perspective

Friday, December 11th, 2009

I was recently attending a session for CSPs (Certified Speaking Professionals) at the annual convention for CAPS (Canadian Association of Professional Speakers), and we were passing the microphone around sharing how we were each faring in this economy.  As is my inclination in this type of situation, I didn’t think about what to say, but rather just spoke what came up – and suprised myself.

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While some spoke of the challenges of the year and of new strategies, I simply said that I had been given the opportunity to re-invent myself this year.  Which I have.  And it’s a perspective I’m happy to hear come out of my mouth.

Early this year I separated from my life and business partner, resulting in siginificant change in my life.  That led to the refining of the brand for Chrysalis and the integration of my two blogs and website into this new integrated format.

So we have a choice in what happens. We can look at the ka-ka, or we can look at what the ka-ka allows us to do, and how it allows us to grow.  Neither is wrong – they are both choices, and most of us usually choose both (at different times).  I’m pleasantly surprised to discover that I’m looking at the opportunities that lie before me now.  It’s time to move forward.

Perspective has such power, does it not?

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If you met your own personality, would you like you?

Monday, June 1st, 2009

I recently listened to a guided meditation that asked you to imagine yourself walking into a room, and then pretending you could step out of yourself to see your personality as it walked in, and noticing what you saw, how you reacted to yourself, and how others reacted to you.  It was an eye-opening experience,so to speak.

In playing with this exercise, I stepped back to imagine the me of some time ago, before I dealt with a lot of 'personal stuff'.  I was quite taken aback by who I was walking into the room back then, and I understood how and why many people reacted to me, both good and bad.

There really is a difference between who we think we are and how we show up in the world.  I'd never before thought of taking that perspective – of seeing how others would see me showing up, and it taught me a lot – both in terms of how I used to show up and how I show up even today.  I can see so much more clearly how I want to show up, and what needs to change to allow that.

Interesting perspective.

If you could see your own personality coming in the door, what would you think?  How would you feel?  And what does all that imply for you right now?